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Have you spent the last year feeling
unmotivated,
confused,
angry,
stuck,
sad,
lonely,
worthless
or otherwise highly stressed?
Consider that if you had not felt those emotions, the last year would have happened the same way.
So, if you had taken everything in your stride, you would have had a much better year!
So how do we actually 'take everything in our stride'?
The answer is a lot better than you think!
We simply need to understand a few obvious things clearly.
When a baby is young, it runs on its Love code. This code is written into its DNA. It makes the baby automatically and enthusiastically head toward everything that is good for it. At this early stage the baby cannot even imagine being disappointed or hurt. It exists entirely in the realms of its beautiful mothers Love. Perfection!
However, over a few years, the baby grows and its nervous system develops further. At some point, it is hurt or disappointed by things. In nearly all cases, they are misunderstandings. Mothers get busy, and cannot always attend to the babys every desire. For the baby, the first trauma is experienced as a shock. It happens more often and they feel horrified! They begin to have tantrums! This is the emergence of the human Fear code, fight, flight, freeze and fawn.
A tantrum is a body reaction. The Fear code takes total control of the body. The thinking aware mind has to wait until the body reaction is fully played out. As adults, a body reaction can cause us to obssess and react in damaging ways. We complain, talk behind peoples backs, and hold harsh judgements without caring to understand or accept. At worst, we can scream and yell at our friends and family. Our values become ignored. Our body is in survival mode. People try to commiserate, leave us to process, and try to avoid us in future. Our adult tantrums, fast and slow, ruin everything that we are trying to build, socially and in business.
Here is clarity. The human fear code is far too sensitive for the modern world. Often, by twenty years of age it alerts at every small disappointment. It judges things cynically, skeptically, angrily or sadly.
The trouble is that most people begin to IDENTIFY with their Fear code. The Love code has become largely inactive under a thick cloak of Fear. All of the powerful and wonderful attributes of the Love code are seriously damaged.
The solution, is to reset our IDENTITY of Love. This fits with all current human wellbeing knowledge, from old religion to psychology and modern mindfulness. When we re-IDENTIFY with Love, our visits to Fear code domains is very temporary. Plus, our non-reactivity allows our thinking mind to behave in a way that avoids further damage. Everything improves dramatically in every way. See the diagrams below.
Where are your counters generally?
ie. What do you identify with? These states define your experience of life. To become well (to escape from fear), you need to cultivate a strong home base of Love, Truth or God.
Here, our counters stay at home with the heart. Any movement into a domain of Fear is very temporary. From this position we grow quickly. This is not a technique, it is the only way home to your truly capable and wonderful self.
Achieving the reset required takes about two days. The process is free and right here. It is called 'A Way to Be' (aw2b). It uses the Kfag model (Kindness, Forgiveness, Acceptance and Gratitude) to overwrite the Fear code. After doing this simple and enjoyable process, we achieve a state of non-reactivity and hold it with pride.
We realize then, that our ways of dressing, walking, talking and thinking, are also a result of our old fears. This is an exciting time! We get to redesign ourselves the way we would prefer! Growth is quick when the heart is fully healthy! We soon realize that we actually do live in a world of Love. We see that our lives had become hijacked, misled and ruined by the Fear code. We recognize the falsity of living in fear and are thankful to have found the light of freedom.
Here is a page with more about the two codes.
Or go directly to Step 1 - installing the K-fag model.
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