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The human heart with vast reserves of motivation, enthusiasm and kindness, but cloaked by fear and confusion.
Step 1: Remove the Cloak.
What are the Advantages of Higher Awareness?
As toddlers, we each experience 'full body reactions' (tantrums). In this state the body is in pure survival mode. The mind is shut down until the body reaction runs its course. As adults, a body reaction can lead to very damaging behavior (worrying, hating, fearing, shouting). Much of what we want and work towards is destroyed, yet we walk away justifying our position to ourselves and others. We actually Identify with our erroneous Fear code (it was formed when we were tots). We are convinced that this is our real life.
To remedy this childishness, we have to create within us a new place of strong Love, Truth or God. We 'live' here. We Identify with Love, Truth or God. Any movement into fear code realms is very temporary. The advantages of achieving Higher Awareness are:
Your inner voice becomes supportive and kind.
You are undeniably happy, and able to handle difficulty with grace.
You are at your best in energy, attractiveness and effectiveness.
You become respected and admired.
You improve in communication, remembering to listen too.
You can easily see the underlying truths in situations and people.
You understand and can cope with your natural creativity.
You automatically regain natural enthusiasm, motivation, confidence and charisma.
You feel proud to be living your life in Truth, having escaped fake fear.
Aw2b guarantees you this state within a few pleasant days.
You will not have to memorize anything, just realize what is True.
The information here is scientifically factual. There is zero woo.
Why is this method quicker than Religion?
Religion is humanity's placeholder for Love and hosts good-hearted communities. But having to submit to mysticism makes this path feel dubious to many other good people. It may be beneficial for the Church to focus on the loving words of Jesus (the superpower of kindness, forgiveness & turning the other cheek), rather than the mystical stories about Jesus.
Some people who have hit 'rock bottom', and given themselves over to the church, have reported strong results. This makes sense because Love really is the only healer and the optimal compass for life success.
As a man, Jesus was right, and stands alongside the Buddha, Newton, Darwin and Einstein in the human search for Truth. 'A Way to Be' uses Love clearly and directly. That's why it works immediately.
Why is this method quicker than Psychology?
Science split with Religion 300 years ago. The astounding intellectual power of Science relies on measurement. So, it has never been able to recognize Love. Psychology lists any behavior that deviates from the path of Love and gives it a name. This attribute is then recognized as something detrimental to a person and society. The importance of Love is thus recognized, but only by its glaring absence.
For healing, psychology offers 'Talk Therapy'. Where a wise person with good rapport, guides a struggling person into wellness. It can work, but it is not reliable and costs in time and money. Also, it cannot heal quickly, because it does not use Love, which is the only thing that can heal a human heart.
Why is this method quicker than Modern Wellbeing?
The slowness of Psychology and Religion has led to a crowd-sourced version of achieving wellbeing. Modern wellbeing is a heroic effort of 'people helping people'. It uses any information from Buddhism, Stoicism, Biographies, Psychology, and anywhere else that offers hope.
The wellness community will say that Love is great but then moves on to other things. That is because there is not much more to say about Love except that it's great! This results in presentations of anagrams, lists and memes. This method can also work, but it is a longterm cerebral quest.
Why is A Way to Be better than any other method?
There is only one way to achieve wellbeing, because there is only one Truth. And the Truth of our human Identity is Love. We are all people who want to love and be loved. Aw2b is the only sensible path because it beautifully combines all human knowledge about ourselves (from every quarter) and delivers it in a short and practical way. There is nowhere to become lost, and so full Enlightenment is guaranteed.
Aw2b is the only way to quickly move from confusion and struggle into a lasting state of clarity, growth and optimism. It uses clear Truth and is unexpectedly powerful. We end up happily doing 'the next right thing'. I can confidently say that no matter how 'well' you think you are, you will become 'weller' when you become clear on this new information. Lets begin now.
Love (scientifically) = Everything that is good for a Human Being.
Love is kindness and community, but also air, water, food, shelter, and a temperate climate. When someone brings you food or water, that is an act of Love. Think about your Love code. It's the main program inside you that makes you say 'Yes!'. It makes you move excitedly toward everything that you need, and everything that is good. It makes you want to try new things and to succeed.
The Love code is the source of your excitement with life, your motivation, your self-belief and purpose. It also provides meaning, and 'thinks' with feelings. It is located in your early nervous system. We refer to this as your subconscious or Heart. It is the source and domain of your Love code. Your sense of yourself as someone who simply wants to Love and be Loved ♥.
Truth!
Now think about your Fear code.
It's a smaller code inside you that makes you say 'No!'. When we are
triggered by something unexpected or anything that feels bad, we react. We use one of the fear code reactions, Fight, Flight, Freeze, or Fawn. The Fear code is our first attempt at understanding the Truth about life. It is built from terrible terrible data. There is zero chance that we could have truly understood the world at 5, 10, or 15 years of age.
As toddlers, we naturally expect the world to be perfect. It is a shock to find out that things don't always go our way. So toddlers have 'tantrums'. A tantrum is a 'body reaction' where the thinking mind is completely ignored until the tantrum has fully run its course. As adults, our body reactions can cause us to shout the most hurtful things at our friends and family. To the person having the body reaction, it is a moment of pure survival. Much of what a person values or is building can become ruined in this short time.
When a body reaction is over, the person walks off feeling proud and right. They then feed the bad emotion with further internal justification and reactivity. That is, they hold onto their emotional state as if it is Truth (their 'real life'). People identify with (become hijacked by) their stupid fear code. Often for a lifetime.
But when we understand ourselves, we recognize the human truth of tantrums and bring ourselves back to Love/Truth/God asap! We accept the weakness of our human nature. We quickly say "I'm sorry, I reacted. That was my fault". Sensible thought returns. In doing this, we gain the respect of others and have it for ourselves. We allow negative emotions to fade away. We do whatever is sensible, and at the right time, to address any issues with care and respect.
When we walk off, we are once again in a state of peace and wonderment at our ability to transcend this human (animal) weakness. We uncover and claim higher self-awareness, self-control and self-leadership. The mature mind joyfully refuses to have tantrums!
In the modern western world, thinking our stressful emotions are 'who we are' is almost unavoidable. Some survive the teen years undamaged, but many of us struggle with confusion, reaction and stagnation for the rest of our lives. Identifying correctly with Love does not make us stupid or soft. We are simply becoming free (from the confusions of the past).
Think about it. Up to this point in your life, you too must have been confused and skewed by the Fear code. When you lift off the cloak of Fear, who will you become? Yourself! You are about to meet your natural capable self. This is called a 'know thyself' moment. It is also called higher awareness, or enlightenment. When your mind moves from a position of stress and powerlessness, into one of confidence and self-belief, it is normal to feel overwhelmed with joy and relief. It feels like coming home. I hope this begins to happen for you this week. In the near future when we teach this is schools, we will call it simply a 'mature mind'.
To protect ourselves from blind negativity, we each need a well-formed core of Love/God/Truth to inhabit and identify with. This builds remarkable inner strength (eg. Victor Frankl, Nelson Mandela). You will achieve this now in aw2b.
Before we move on, it is a strong move to think about the Love code versus the Fear code a little more.
Please look at this Fear code list:
Procrastination, Stagnation,
Social confusion, Trouble finding and keeping friends,
Overly nice, Negative thinking & neg. inner voice,
Judgmental, Bullying,
Hard to break bad habits, Unmotivated to change,
Overthinking, Anxiety,
Loss of hope, Depression,
Frustration, Anger.
These qualities (of general confusion) exist for people who continue to hold unresolved trauma. The human Fear code is far too sensitive for our own good. Unresolved trauma leaves us in a permanent sensitive state. We judge things wrongly and speak in a way that drives people (and help) away. It seriously hampers our ability to succeed at things and live a wonderful life.
Here is the opposite list:
(it's the Love code unobscured)
Happy achievement, Clear purpose,
Charisma, Confidence,
Self-belief, Optimism,
Accepting, Encouraging,
Quite disciplined,
Calm, Self-assured,
Excited about life and opportunities,
Peace & love, Self-knowledge.
This is everything we seek. It's Confidence and Charisma!
This list describes the world's most wonderful, wealthy, amazing, talented, successful and charismatic people. You might think that they have never suffered trauma. That is not true.
One way or another, successful people have managed to process their trauma. Old fear does not appear obvious in the way they think or behave. They are not 'suppressing' early pain but have come to terms with it in a healthy way. This is what you will learn to do very soon. Everything changes quite quickly, when you realize how this Truth works.
We need to kill any doubt about this. So, let's think about the 'Yes' and the 'No' code one more time.
Think about how you would help this struggling plant.
Plant Love (scientifically) = Everything that is good for a plant.
A plant needs air, water, nutrients in the soil, the right temperature, and sunlight to thrive. This is the Love code for plants. They say 'Yes!' to all of those things.
The lack of light on the first plant makes it unhealthy. Sadly, it is struggling. We can clearly see that it looks unhealthy too. If we were there, we would take the cloak off it (giving it access to Love). Note that when the cloak is lifted, there is a perfectly wonderful plant ready to go! A healthy plant is all Love code and zero Fear code. It is fully happy and very attractive to all. I wish for ALL plants to be running fully (and only) on the 'Yes!'/ Love code.
Puppy Love (scientifically) = Everything that is good for a puppy.
A puppy needs air, water, food, sleep, a temperate climate, sunlight, good company, and an open mindset and manner. This is the Love code for puppies. They say 'Yes!' to all of those things.
The trauma of the rescue puppy has made it unhappy and unhealthy. Sadly, it is struggling. We can clearly see that it looks unhealthy too. If we were there, we would give it food and treat it kindly (giving it Love).
Note that when the cloak of fear is lifted, there is a perfectly wonderful puppy ready to go. It will be the same with you!
When a puppy (or human) is all Love code and zero Fear code it is fully happy and most attractive to all. I wish for ALL puppies (and humans) to be running fully (and only) on the 'Yes!'/ Love code.
All human history tells us that to naturally (no effort required) look my best, achieve my best, and feel my best (ie. maximize my confidence, charisma, motivation, enthusiasm, curiosity & creativity) these are the settings:
Wellbeing Simplicity:
Just be Love.
Delete Fear code reactivity to gain the world. We can teach the world that 'formulate' has been added to the Fear code, and that humans always use that. This is simple but unexpectedly powerful.
It is a clear realization.
Truth.
The person you have been for years, is a skewed and warped version of who you truly are. Your Fear code is smothering your natural joy and positive energy.. When you lift the cloak of fear from your heart, you are not just a better version, you are meeting your true most beautiful adult (mature) self for the very first time. Your good energy will be released. You can then become as happy and successful as you can imagine.
Religion and all Spiritual paths, Psychology (Science), & Modern Wellbeing are all correct. For the first time in human history, they now are united (see the Step 3 page for more about our wonderful future).
Imagine, here comes your Prince or Princess (it is you). Their heart is so full of Love there is no room for fear or uncertainty. They are introducing themselves to you now. They are explaining to you that your struggle is done. They are now taking over full control.
From this moment, you know the voice of Truth. It is your own voice. It speaks Love. It is calm, strong, talented, patient, kind, and loves to play well with others :)
You have a glimpse now of how you will feel permanently soon.
Read this page again tomorrow to really lock it in.
100% wellbeing happens naturally when we remove the effects of the Fear code.
A way to quickly and enjoyably do that is next.
Note that everything on this site fits with natural logic, our intuition, and all historic human wisdom.
So be clear. This is the paradigm.
Aw2b is the quickest and easiest way for you and your community, to do exactly what is needed to begin living your best lives immediately.
The Fear of change is strong, but you want an easy way to experience your best life. So, in aw2b, you will first reset your Love Identity with the Kfag model (Kindness, Forgiveness, Acceptance & Gratitude ... step 1 next page) to stop those inner confused voices. We then notice how the fear code has dictated how we walk, talk, think and dress. Replace those old pathways with the ones you now prefer, or update your knowledge to 'do what works' (step 2). You will now be following the path of Love. Everything you do will work as it should. Love is True, fear is almost never true. If anything makes you feel blue, think why? Then discard it as a false flag, because the short notes in your journal (step 3) are always right. Your life is going to become fabulous. This is True for every citizen of every country. All humanity is about to unite in Love.
An Encouraging note!
It is normal to fear change. It may feel like it will take a lot of extra effort.
What actually happens is that your mind shifts to a new place where well directed effort feels fully worthwhile. Part of the enlightenment revelation is realizing that you should actually be doing a lot less! Less of the things that are hard to take, like always beating yourself up, questioning everything and rushing around confused, trying to make a good impression. Your inner King or Queen is not stressed at all. They are ready to step up. The knowledge on these pages, will make your mind aware of the awesome, wonderful, and reliable power of Love ♥!
So, to look my best, and be at my best, I commit to stopping the reactivity struggle.
Bookmark this page! Do not forget this tomorrow!
I will learn how to MAXIMIZE my Love code (step 1).
By re-processing my past with Love, I achieve a proud state of zero reactivity.
We use the 'Kfag' model (Kindness, Forgiveness, Acceptance, Gratitude).
This takes a couple of hours on a weekend.
Then I want to MINIMIZE the old effects of my Fear code (step 2).
I recognize that the Fear code has influenced how I walk, talk, dress and think!
I adopt the ways of the wisest people to try their recommended ideal 'way to be'.
Maintain Higher Awareness (step 3).
I keep a few short notes in a daily journal. They remind me of what is True, and what I am aiming for.
Daily, I notice how I am being now, and how I used to be. The difference is obvious and encouraging.
I am about to learn, that becoming my most effective best self, is actually easy and enjoyable.
(wellbeing is natural for all Life)
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